You took time to learn more about each other, about your past and your dreams for the future.But here's the deal: Now that you're married, you need to do the same thing! And that's why dating shouldn't stop with marriage. It means you're going to have to make your marriage and your spouse a priority. If your marriage isn't broken, the marriage of someone you know is. DATE YOUR WIFE TONIGHT Men, how do we begin to change our course? Between divorce and deciding to date, a highly important personal development needs to occur, what psychologists call "separation and individuation".This maturational process resembles what children go through as they separate from their parents and take responsibility for their lives.however, this act of having some privacy when you’re doing your business has helped us get down to business more ofte (see what i did there?Although having a weekly date may seem like a no-brainer, many couples’ good intentions quickly get put off to some future time, when life is not so busy or there’s more money.
How many married couples can you think of that have a thriving marriage -- a good, happy, alive marriage -- the kind of marriage that makes other people want to get married? And you put a lot of effort into impressing that girl.
Prior to healthy separation, teenagers often blame their parents for their unhappiness, feel like victims and angrily cite their parents' shortcomings (e.g., "they're too self-centered" or "they don't understand me") as causes for the problems.
Doesn't this sound uncomfortably similar to the fighting of marital partners as they are breaking up?
our extreme comfort levels were not helping us feel sexy/passionate towards each other and we were starting to feel more like roommates and less like husband and wife.
this may seem basic but i’ve talked to plenty of couples who are very comfortable using the bathroom in front of each other (we were too…well only ‘yellow because it’s mellow.’) i get it, it’s convenient, especially if you only have 1 bathroom in your home like we do.