Over the last several months, I have dated 3 men (not simultaneously) that I met on They all seem to have one thing in common: after 2-4 dates, they like to touch base with me during the week by sending me text messages to my cell phone!Our father-daughter relationship was more like a typical father-son relationship. I was also a dancer and heavily involved in the performing arts which attracts a wide variety of characters.My mom hated seafood so we would often go get fish together and make fun of people at work, school, etc. I always made sure everyone felt welcome and included.There are a lot of “Daddy’s Girls” out there, but I am not one of them.To define our relationship like that would misconstrue it; we were simpatico. I’d say it was bad experiences throughout school which probably made me much more accepting.My dad is tremendously funny and a phenomenal story teller. I wore the same pair of vans tennis shoes to school for 5 years straight, had long un-brushed hair, and wore oversized sweatshirts and jean shorts to school. Because I wasn’t popular and because I was picky, I didn’t go on a single date until I was almost 20 years old. I thought it best to not deal with this all in real time in hopes that my Dad would come to his senses.
His own family doesn’t seem to want much to do with him.
If I were in his position, I would continue acting in the way that has you chasing. He tried it one way, it probably felt terrible to him and ultimately got him rejected.
So based on that experience, he would probably make a conscious, willful effort not to get back into that position with you again. With that said, here’s a few things to consider: First, guys don’t chase things that they don’t think they have to chase.
Internet dating can lead to finding your love, and many times leads to marriage.
You can find a friend, or it might lead to disaster and even death.